Destination!!!!!!!!!

[ray]

Setting priorities is the biggest issue i faced offlate.I am working towards a goal and the moment i feel i am doing good, some stressor comes my way and delays it.Each time this happens my entire life needs a revision, it takes away lotta time,its tough to live life with so much awareness i feel sometimes.Maybe thats why peopl e say ignorance is bliss.
Balancing personal life and career gets so difficult at times.I have always given personal life more importance though coz without it there's no meaning in life, but the problem is i never got the right circumstances till now to achieve my goal.maybe i am paying the price for keeping my personal life on the top of the list, i;m i wrong in doing this?I know ultimately its my choice:)
I am the kinda person who can never be happy if i dont balance my personal issues well at the same time i love my career and this struggle looks never ending.

[rokclmr]

Mon ami:

I know exactly where you are. Really. My priorities have changed recently, and my personal life/goals are now more important to me than my current job. And, staying focussed on my job, at times, is very difficult. But remember that life is a balance, never one thing being more than something else. The minute you are out of kilter, the world spins around you, and you don't know which end is up. (My diving instructor has a good piece of advice for that situation: "Look at your bubbles... they always know which way is up.")

Nothing is ever coincidental. Everything, even your stressors, occur for some reason. "There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you in its hands. You seek problems because you need their gifts." RB -- Illusions. IMHO, you should look behind your stressors, and your struggle, and see what is causing it. Once you learn what that gift is, you can use it, and move forward.

Small steps... The Grand Canyon didn't just appear all at once, and neither are truly important goals achieved instantly.

Good luck.

Rokclmr

"The thing always happens that you really believe in; and the belief in a thing makes it happen." Frank Lloyd Wright

[ray]

Thanks rokclmr for the post.
You are very true.
I should take my stressor in a positive way:)
love,
ray